Im puttiing this under health cos its going to affect my health....worrying about it..
couple of friends and i were talking about kids..grandkids family relationships...and it seems to be the norm that they are very much closer to their daughters kids than their sons kids....none have obviously any apparent problems with their daughter in laws...but seems the daughter in laws gravitate towards their own families...now......heres whats worrying me...i have a very very close relationship with my daughters, son in law and i see the grandkids every friggin day......but my son im very close with too...but im worried..if he gets into a relationship is he automatically going to jump ship to the other family....will i be able to generate a close relationship with his partner, will i see his children regularly i would certainly want the same kind of relationship with his kids as with any of my daughters kids........most of my friends dont seem to have a very close relationship with their mother in laws either?????
am i being daft? are boys just that other bit more different to girls?
couple of friends and i were talking about kids..grandkids family relationships...and it seems to be the norm that they are very much closer to their daughters kids than their sons kids....none have obviously any apparent problems with their daughter in laws...but seems the daughter in laws gravitate towards their own families...now......heres whats worrying me...i have a very very close relationship with my daughters, son in law and i see the grandkids every friggin day......but my son im very close with too...but im worried..if he gets into a relationship is he automatically going to jump ship to the other family....will i be able to generate a close relationship with his partner, will i see his children regularly i would certainly want the same kind of relationship with his kids as with any of my daughters kids........most of my friends dont seem to have a very close relationship with their mother in laws either?????
am i being daft? are boys just that other bit more different to girls?
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